27 Haziran 2012 Çarşamba

Guest Post: Fermented Foods + Spiced Fermented Lemons & Fermented Citrus Beets w/ Ginger

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I am so honored and excited to be exchanging recipe posts with Jennifer from Hybrid Rasta Mama.  Jennifer is a reggae loving, semi-crunchy, Real Foodie.  She's passionate about conscious parenting, natural living, holistic health, real foods, and a Waldorf inspired approach to education.


There are just not enough kind things I can say about this sweet, beautiful mama.  I truly admire Jennifer, she has a beautiful heart filled with compassion.  She's the kind of person that makes you realize there is still kindness in this world.
  
Please make sure to visit Hybrid Rasta Mama.  I suggest you start with her awesome post on coconut oil, 160 Uses for Coconut Oil and if you're like me and love pumpkin, you have to check out her post Pumpkin Recipes Gone Wild.
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Fermenting foods the way our ancestors did is a lost art but one that is making a comeback. Traditionally fermented foods like grass-fed cheese, kefir, miso, olives, pickles, sauerkraut, tempeh, and yogurt are some of the oldest and healthiest foods on the planet. The term “fermented” may sound unpalatable but this ancient preparation and preservation method, which involves breaking down carbohydrates and proteins using microorganisms such as bacteria, molds, and yeast, produces delicious food. More importantly, these foods contain probiotics that can be beneficial to your overall health.



Why should you incorporate traditionally fermented foods into your diet? Here is a short list outlining the benefits and the reasons of why you might want to keep a well-stocked refrigerator of various fermented foods and beverages.
·       Fermented foods improve digestion. Fermenting our foods before we eat them is like partially digesting them before we consume them. According to Joanne Slavin, a professor in the Department of Food Science and Nutrition at the University of Minnesota, “…sometimes people who cannot tolerate milk can eat yogurt. That’s because the lactose (which is usually the part people can’t tolerate) in milk is broken down as the milk is fermented and turns into yogurt.”
·       Fermented foods restore the proper balance of bacteria in the gut. Do you suffer from lactose intolerance? Gluten intolerance? Constipation? Irritable bowel syndrome? Yeast infections? Allergies? Asthma? All of these conditions have been linked to a lack of good bacteria in the gut.
·       Raw, fermented foods are rich in enzymes. Your body needs enzymes to properly digest, absorb, and make full use of your food. As you age, your body’s supply of enzymes decreases. This has caused many scientists to hypothesize that if you could guard against enzyme depletion, you could live a longer, healthier life.
·       Fermenting food actually increases the vitamin content. Fermented dairy products consistently reveal an increased level of folic acid which is critical to producing healthy babies as well as pyroxidine, B vitamins, riboflavin and biotin depending on the strains of bacteria present.
·       Eating fermented food helps us to absorb the nutrients we’re consuming. You can ingest huge amounts of nutrients, but unless you actually absorb them, they’re useless to you. When you improve digestion, you improve absorption.
·       Fermenting food helps to preserve it for longer periods of time. Milk will go bad in the fridge but kefir and yogurt last a lot longer. Sauerkraut, pickles and salsa will keep for months. And if you’ve got a huge batch of produce in your garden that you don’t know how to use up — ferment it!
·       Fermenting food is inexpensive. There’s nothing fancy required for this hobby. And many of the foods required to make these recipes are very cheap. You can use inexpensive cabbage to make sauerkraut, or get yourself a kombucha scoby and with just pennies’ worth of water, sugar and tea, you’ve got a health elixir slash soda pop.
·       Fermenting food increases the flavor. There’s a reason humans enjoy drinking wine and eating stinky cheese. There’s a reason we like sauerkraut on our hot dogs and salsa on our tortilla chips. It tastes good!
Need a place to start? Looking for some creative ferments? Here are two recipes using produce that is currently in season.
Photo Credit Citrus Trees Online

Spiced Fermented Lemons
Ingredients·       7 to 8 medium lemons (organic – you do not want the wax coating from standard lemons)·       Juice from 7 lemons·       3/4 cup unrefined sea salt·       4 whole, organic bay leaves·       1 large cinnamon stick ·       1 tablespoon whole allspice berries·       1 tablespoon coriander seed

Directions1.    Wash the organic lemons thoroughly.2.    Cut lemons in quarters so the sections remain connected. Typically stop the cut about ¼ inch from the bottom of the lemon to keep it intact.3.    Put 2 tablespoons of salt into the openings of each lemon.4.    Press the salt into each cut section so that it is packed tightly.5.    Pack everything into a 1 1/2-liter mason jar.6.    Mix remaining salt & lemon juice.7.    Pour lemon juice/salt over lemons packed in jar.8.    The brine should extend 1/2-inch above the lemons; if not, add filtered, non-chlorine, non-fluoride water to raise level.9.    Make sure that you have headroom in the jar to allow for any expansion.10.Place the jar in a dark area or cabinet. 11.Ferment at room temperature for 10-30 days. The longer you ferment, the richer it will be.12.At the end of the fermentation period, refrigerate.13.Use the recipes in middle eastern and Indian style recipes. These lemons are great with chicken dishes! You can also eat them by themselves are with a little Greek yogurt.
Photo Courtesy of Jennifer @ Hybrid Rasta Mama

Fermented Citrus Beets with Ginger
Ingredients·       4 medium beets, peeled and sliced into ⅛"-thick rounds·       1 teaspoon whole black peppercorns·       1 teaspoon whole allspice berries·       1 teaspoon whole cloves·       1 teaspoon brown mustard seeds·       2 sticks cinnamon ·       1" piece ginger, peeled and cut into slim sticks·       Peel of 1 orange, cut off in strips·       2 tablespoon whey·       2 tablespoon raw honey·       3 cups filtered water, warmed to room temperature·       ½ cup unrefined sea salt
Directions1.    Bring a 4-qt. saucepan of salted water to a boil, and add beets; cook until just tender, about 3 minutes. 2.    Drain and transfer to a bowl of ice water, and let sit for 2 minutes to chill. 3.    Drain and place beets in a sterilized 1-qt. glass jar along with mustard seeds, allspice berries, peppercorns, cloves, cinnamon, ginger, and orange peel. 4.    In a medium bowl, stir together whey, honey, and filtered water; pour over beets until covered. 5.    Pour any remaining brine or water into a resealable plastic sandwich bag, and place bag on top of beets to keep them submerged.6.    Place the jar in a dark area or cabinet for at least one week. You can then taste the brine to see if you like it. Keep fermenting for 3 days periods until the brine suits your personal taste. 7.    Once beets are cured, season them with sea salt to taste and refrigerate for up to 10 days._________________________________________________________________
Thank you for sharing your wonderful recipes Jennifer! xo

About Hybrid Rasta Mama Jennifer, author of Hybrid Rasta Mama, is a former government recruiter turned stay-at-home mama to a precious daughter (“Tiny”) brought earthside in early 2009. She is passionate about conscious parenting, natural living, holistic health/wellness, real foods, and a Waldorf inspired approach to education. Jennifer is committed to breastfeeding (especially extended breastfeeding), bed-sharing, cloth diapering, green living, babywearing, peaceful parenting, playful parenting, and getting children outside. She is a hybrid parent, taking a little of this, throwing in a little of that, and blending it all together to create a parenting style that is centered on what her daughter needs in order to flourish as a human being. Jennifer also lives and breathes reggae music, the Rastafarian culture and way of life. Reggae music and its message touches her soul. You can also find Jennifer on FacebookTwitterPinterest, Networked BlogsStumbleUponand Google +.

Spiced Carob Cocoa – Warm or Iced

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Carob – you either love it or you hate it.  I LOVE it!  It has a delicious malty flavor, yum, yum, yum!  Carob is a great alternative for those who can’t have chocolate or are looking for a caffeine-free version of chocolate.  It's high in fiber, a great source of calcium, and contains many other vitamins and minerals.      
Hot Spiced Carob Cocoa is so comforting and soothing on cold days.  It’s also so yummy poured over ice (my favorite way to drink it).     
Spiced Carob Cocoa – Warm or Iced
Carob clumps easily, so I highly recommend using a blender to make this.  If you don’t have one, you can add carob powder to a small bowl with the honey/maple syrup, vanilla and cinnamon, stir with a spoon and work the carob into a paste, then add to the milk. 
Equipment: Blender or Small Bowl w/ Spoon, Medium-Size Saucepan
·      2 cups raw whole milk* or full fat coconut milk  (See Resources)·      3 tablespoons roasted carob powder ·      1-2 tablespoons honey or organic maple syrup grade B·      1 ½ teaspoons gluten-free vanilla extract (I use Simply Organic)·      ¼ teaspoon ground cinnamon (I use sweet cinnamon, See Resources)·      Ice – optional, for cold version only
1.    Place all ingredients in the blender.  COVER with lid, you don’t want everything all over your kitchen. 
2.   Blend on medium speed until combined and smooth, about 15-30 seconds. 
3.   Pour into saucepan and heat over low heat to desired temperature OR pour over ice to have a cold version (it’s DELICIOUS iced!). 
4.   Serve immediately. 
Yield: Makes 2 cups. 
Vegan-Option: Use coconut milk instead of milk and organic maple syrup grade B instead of honey. 
Note: Recipe can easily be doubled.
* For California residents, check out my favorite raw milk from Claravale Farm.  They sell to stores and co-ops all over CA.  


This post is part of Fat Tuesday @ Real Food Forager, Monday Mania @ The Healthy Home Economist, Homestead Barn Hop @ The Prairie Homestead, Weekend Gourmet Blog Carnival @ Hartke Is Online, Traditional Tuesdays @ Cooking Traditional Foods, Slightly Indulgent Tuesday @ Simply Sugar & Gluten-Free, Allergy-Free Wednesdays @ Gluten Free Pantry, Hearth and Soul Hop @ Premeditated Leftovers, Make Your Own! Monday link-up @ Nourishing Treasures, Sunday School Blog Carnival @ Butter Believer, Real Food Wednesday @ Kelly the Kitchen Kop, and These Chicks Cooked Recipe Swap @ This Chick Cooks.

25 Haziran 2012 Pazartesi

highlights from raw day 3 (new food crushes!)

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I'm not going to lie, this week of raw eating has been a challenge. I am able to create amazingly delicious meals, but I've realized I miss the nuttiness and chewiness of whole grains and the comfort of legumes. We've been eating a ton of meatless family meals, so I don't miss the meat. Maybe it's that I don't like having my food choices restricted. Really, I think that's the issue. 

But I needed to do something to get myself back on track; back to being a little more mindful about the foods I was eating. And if nothing else, this raw foods week of a 3-week cleanse (the first week being a paring back of the taboo stuff, then this raw week, and next week we shall see...) has made me more cognizant of what my body craves.  

So, the latest installment of "food crushes" takes this raw week into consideration... and the fact that I was unexpectedly out and about all day. Sure, I could have just picked up some pieces of fruit or maybe a salad somewhere...but I wanted some "treats": raw-approved vittles that someone else labored over. And I also wanted some crunch to go along with all of the smoothies, pestos, puddings, soups and salads I've been whipping up. Brad's Raw Kale Chips are one of my favorite snacks, and today I thought nothing of plunking down some $ to indulge in a box. 

Then our health food store in town said these local crackers were popular, so I indulged again. They are really good. You have to like the consistency of flax crackers, which I do. And their simple addition of arugula, tomatoes and cippolini onions gave these just the right texture and taste I was craving. I can't find a website for this company, Healing Home Foods (out of Pound Ridge, NY), but they appear to frequent some local farmer's markets and Healthfare in New Canaan carries their full line.  

green gazpacho (a.k.a. "green goblin goop")

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It is hot here in CT. Ridiculously steamy hot. Perfect night for a cold, hydrating soup. I've made gazpacho in the past, but tonight I didn't have tomatoes on hand...and heck if I was getting in the car again once we were home and settled. So, I took inventory of the fridge and threw a few things into the Cuisinart, and hoped it was a winner. It was. In fact so much so, that this just might be my healthy go-to soup this summer. Even the kids liked it once I gave them a chance to name it. Call it whatever you want, this one's a keeper.
Green Gazpacho (or "Green Goblin Goop")makes 2 generous bowls, or 4 side dish bowls
1 bunch of organic celery, rough chopped1/2 an onion, rough chopped2 cloves of garlic1 English cucumber, rough chopped1 avocado, rough choppedjuice of 2 lemonsdill (fresh or dried), to tastesea salt + pepper, to taste
Combine everything in your food processor, using the "s" blade. Pulse until desired consistency. Serve with a dollop of sour cream or cashew cream, if desired.
Here is the recipe in photos, for those who like a visual...

1/2 an onion and 1 bunch of celery...

1 English cucumber + 2 cloves of garlic....

1 avocado...

juice of 2 lemons...

and some sea salt + dill (I didn't have fresh) for flavor.

That's it! Now pulse until you desired consistency...

and voila! A perfect, healthy summer meal is served in minutes. I topped ours with a dollop of the "vegan sour cream" (aka cashew cream) I made at the beginning of this raw eating week I am doing + had one of the yummy flax crackers I picked up yesterday alongside it. Is it just me, or is my skin starting to glow a bit?

highlights from raw day 4

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Today was blazing hot in CT, and I had to do a ridiculous amount of driving two kids two different places the bulk of the day. Honestly, I was pretty thankful to do doing this raw eating week because the alternative would have most definitely involved less than stellar food from the snack bar, or mindless grabbing of things to tide me over from our snack drawer. Instead, I ate well. Really well, in fact...
a green smoothie made with 1 banana + 6 or so big organic strawberries + a few handfuls of organic spinach + 2 Tablespoons ground flaxseed + 11 oz. 100% pure coconut water

Here's a deal though: some days, the smoothies come out really pretty. Other days they come out downright nasty looking. Needless to say, appearances can be deceiving. So, I have a new deal with my children: trust mom. Take the first sip with your eyes closed, and then tell me whether you like it.

Chia pudding (which I'd made a few days ago and completely forgotten about... actually the darn stuff was taking so long to gel up that I think I'd given up hope) with fresh berries for a quick lunch in between taking a fabulous long walk and driving the kids here and there.

An afternoon snack of these cucumber boats with homemade sun dried tomato-cashew-pine nut pesto that I am totally digging... and the kids are too. Who doesn't love food you can pick up with your hands?

And, last but certainly not least, this amazing green gazpacho I concocted with what I had on hand... in mere minutes. I have a crush on this gazpacho.

highlights from raw days 5 + 6

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Friday got away from me, so these are the highlights for days 5 + 6. I'm telling you folks, this has been one clean eating week around here. Holy cow. I can hardly believe I'm at the Day 6 mark of 7 days eating raw. Will I always eat raw? Nope. But what it has done is reset my cravings, demonstrate what quantities of foods my body actually needs (who knew that I didn't actually need those leftover crusts from my son's grilled cheese. Who knew!) and I've broadened my recipe repertoire to include some seriously fabulous new finds, that just happen to be raw. So, it's been a win-win all around. Oh, and the fact that my white jeans are now looser? Bonus.


So, without further adieu (since who know how long my kids will stay napping.... yes, I put them down for a nap today. I know, I know. But they needed it. And well, so did I...). OK, so highlight of yesterday #1: making time for a walk, no matter how nutty my day.


Because if I had not gone for a walk, I would have never known that there are blackberries growing in Waveny! Orange/yellow trail people...


And, if I had not done this raw week, well then, I would still think I had to buy summer rolls at the local Thai restaurant. Nope. Yours truly has mastered the art of the summer roll! (Recipe coming soon, I promise!!) Seriously, these are so darn easy + healthy I may make them once/week this summer.


And then there was the picnic last night that I was so, so excited to bring my raw offerings too. I knew my girlfriends would love these new recipes. And then, boom, we're pulling into our club and the skies open up. Literally. Rain like we haven't had in, oh, about a week. But thanks to a very generous friend who isn't afraid to let a whole pack of picnic revelers descend upon her house, we all hauled our offerings into her kitchen, laid out the picnic table cloth and voila! (And yes, my green gazpacho had my friends-- and their husbands-- swooning. It is that good.)


And today, it's been all about water and making a fresh batch of summer rolls to take to the second potluck of the weekend. That, and putting the kids down for an (unheard of) nap.

exciting news!!!

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What could be more exciting than this year's teacher gifts?

More exciting than me whipping up and passing along a new phenomenal, super easy recipe (that also happens to be healthy and family-friendly too)?

Answer: the full plate blog caught the eye of the editors at Forbes and was named to their "2012 Top 100 Sites for Women".  Seriously. Get outta town, right?! I know, I had to pinch myself too. I love writing the full plate blog, and I am really, really honored to be included in this list of 99 other sites that includes HuffPo Women, Pinterest, Babble, Cafe Mom, The Bloggess, Smitten Kitchen, The Pioneer Woman, and bloggers who are way cooler that I could ever hope to be, like A Cup of Jo, and one of my long-time favorites, The Nie Nie Dialogues, just to name a few. I am in absolutely incredible company. I could spend hours delving into the blogs on this list, and I think I will this summer.

Oh, which speaking of, I should tell you that posting this summer is going to be kind of sporadic. Of course I'll keep sharing away with the easy recipes, but each week's schedule may be different (depending upon my children's camp schedule, and my amount of free time). I recommend subscribing via email if it annoys you to come over and either have to play catch-up because I found a chunk of time and wrote three posts in one day...or have been spending too much time at the beach/park/backyard and didn't get to post for a few days. You subscribe (via Feedburner) there on the right hand column. See it? And for those who may be new, that post-a-day during my raw week was a "bonus". Just wanted to let you all know I was still alive and kicking. Normally, expect a post or two a week... enough to keep you inspired, but not overwhelmed. Sound good?

24 Haziran 2012 Pazar

Wade's Mill

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PhotobucketOur next stop was at Wade's Mill.
The internet page we looked at to find it said it would be open, but when we arrived, it was closed.
That was OK. We just walked around the outside and saw what we could of the historical mill. PhotobucketFrom the website: "Wade's Mill is a working flour mill, c. 1750, built by Captain Joseph Kennedy. Captain Kennedy was a Scotsman who was one of the earlier settlers in the Shenandoah Valley of Virginia. He settled in the area between Staunton and Lexington Virginia. This was the frontier of the United States between 1740 and 1770. The Kennedy family owned the flour mill in the Shenandoah Valley for about 100 years.

In 1882, James F. Wade bought the flour mill and his family operated it for the next four generations. The interior and workings of the flour mill are much like they were when Mr. Wade bought it.

How Wade's Mill OperatesThe mill is powered by a 21-foot water wheel that is fed by a nearby stream (known originally as Captain Joseph Kennedy's Mill Creek). Wade's Mill is one of the few remaining flour mills that still produces a wide variety of flours exclusively on mill stones. The Shenandoah Valley flour mill is on the National Register of Historic Places."PhotobucketThanks to technology, you can try this historical mill's products in your home.Photobucket
I found a nice video on YouTube of the inside of the mill:

If for some reason that doesn't work, you can find the video here.

Humpback Rocks Visitor Center and Farm Museum

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 PhotobucketThis gate is weighted with rocks to help it swing open.PhotobucketActual log home of a family with seven children.PhotobucketThe kitchen, living area, and parent's bedroom were on the first floor.Caleb has climbed the ladder in the picture to see where the children slept.Photobucket
Photobucketbee gumsPhotobucketroot cellar and plunder storage room
Clint "locked" our children in there. :-)PhotobucketThis is the barn and rock fencing.Photobucketinside the barnPhotobucketThis is a hog pen. The farmers had razorback hogs that would run wild until the fall.
Then, they would round up the best hogs and put them in this pen.
The top and log held in place by the "x" supports were not to keep the hogs in.It was to keep the bears out! PhotobucketThis is inside the spring house. They would keep their butter and other cold storage items on the rocks.PhotobucketThe tour made for a nice walk.Photobucketgorgeous tree

Prayer Request for Steve Saint

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Steve Saint, is the son of Nate Saint, the missionary that was brutally killed by the people he went to help. Steve lived with them years later and became close friends with the man who killed his father. Steve told the story in the book and movie End of the Spear. He was recently seriously injured working on an experimental aircraft (wing fell on him) and is paralyzed. There is hope in an upcoming surgery to relieve pressure on his spine. Please lift this beautiful man in your prayers.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIXR9FDrfhg


http://www.cbn.com/cbnnews/us/2012/June/Paralyzed-Steve-Saint-Give-God-All-Youve-Got/

http://www.itecusa.org/

http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2012/juneweb-only/steve-saint-partly-paralyzed-testing-new-missionary-tech.html

Our Family Road Trip Tips

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Yesterday's post concluded our stops on our trip. We left one Thursday evening after Clint arrived home from work and returned that Sunday afternoon. It was a very full few days, and we had so much fun! There are many things we did to make the trip easier. Brandon and Amanda had to attend classes, so we only had five children ages 12 down to 3. I have put down some of the things I do to make trips easier and less costly for our family here in case they can bless someone else.

Our family drinks water most of the time. It is very rare for us to have a soda. Not only are sodas bad for you, but they also seem to necessitate more frequent bathroom stops. We use the very large insulated mugs to hold water and ice for the day for everyone except Emily and Hannah. It is much like having your own thermos. Emily and Hannah have smaller insulated cups that they can handle easier. It cuts down on washing and ice usage in our household. We took these on our trip, so cold water was available at all times. One bag of ice filled all of them with a little left over for the cooler. A gallon jug of water refilled them as needed.

For most meals, we stopped at a grocery store and picked up sandwich fixings or a rotisserie chicken, fruit, healthy crackers, and a small treat like cookies. Not only was it a healthier choice over fast food restaurants, but it was easier on the wallet. I made use of coupons and in store specials and saved $16 in one stop on $30 worth of food.

We ate breakfast at the hotels. We ate protein (eggs, ham, sausage, bacon) and complex carbohydrates (fruit, whole grain toast) choosing to skip the simple carbs (waffles, muffins, danishes) because we knew those would make us hungry again sooner and were full of empty calories. Once, per permisson from the desk clerk of the hotel, we let them hold onto a danish for after lunch.

I kept on board the suburban a first aid kit. I packed it from items we already had on hand at home into a large zipper freezer bag. This packs flat and is easy to tuck into a duffel bag or under my seat.

I also pack a large freezer bag with napkins, plastic cutlery, condiments, and spices to make "moving meals" easier. I also keep hand sanitizer on board.

Plastic cups are the easiest way I have found to serve some foods inside of a moving vehicle. I often fill a cup up with whole grain cereal for breakfast on the go, as a side item, or a snack. When possible, I layer their meal in the cup: steamed broccoli in the bottom, chicken breast in the middle, and half a wheat roll on top.

We planned ahead for stops at places the children could get out and burn off energy. If we happened upon a place, like an open field beside a fast food place, we let them run for 15-20 minutes. Making sure they had fun, I kept them moving fast and hard the entire time because I knew they'd be cooped up for another stretch of time. We'd chase Clint, or hop in a line, or let them run in circles. I do this away from areas people are congregating, but we usually have someone walk over to talk to us or the children.

We do not time our driving time, and our schedule is kept flexible. We go for a no stress, fun for everyone adventure. If your goal is reaching a destination in a certain time limit, you are racing a clock. If your goal is to provide a relaxed and enjoyable experience for every single member of your family, you are on a family vacation. What good is it to get to a destination in record time, if everyone is miserable, uncomfortable, and grumpy? The ride is the best time to bond with your family on the trip because you are all in one place without many distractions, so you can really talk and enjoy one another if you choose to do so.

Even when we go away for two weeks, I only pack 3 days worth of clothing for most of us. That make four total outfits per person because they are wearing one. I add an extra shirt for each of us just in case. I make sure everyone also haves a jacket or long sleeved shirt when there might be a chill in the evenings. For the younger children I packed two extra shirts and an extra pair of pants. This cuts down on space needed for luggage. We threw all of our dirty clothes into one washing machine twice and came home with clean clothes.

I packed pint sized canning jars with laundry detergent and fabric softener. This took up little space, but also cut costs...especially since I make my own laundry detergent and fabric softener.

We made sure every one's needs were met. A trip is about making memories, bonding, exploring, and getting some down time from the hectic pace of life. Within reason, if someone is not enjoying themselves, we try to remedy it. However, we do not cater to our children's whims or bad behavior. We do not tolerate whining or bad attitudes...

As a general rule: If there is a bad attitude, I think first on the child's physical needs. Have they had a proper diet and meals on time? Did they sleep well last night? Have they had too much excitement? If it isn't physical, I address the emotional and spiritual issues. What has made you upset? Why? What is a godly response to this situation? How can I restore peace? With warring siblings, we seek to establish mutual understanding, forgiveness and peace.

When someone does get out of line, for whatever reason, we do our best to respond patiently with love. Self-control means we keep in control of ourselves...our attitudes, our voices, our thoughts, our words, and our body language. To lose control compounds the problem. We end up having two misbehaving people to deal with: them and ourselves! You know it's bad when Mom needs to put herself in time out!!

We planned ahead for bathroom breaks. If everyone knows when you start that you are going to stop in one hour, they are more willing to wait patiently. I explain time to my younger children in TV show increments. "Do you remember how long it takes for Daddy to get home once I tell you he has left work? Well, it will take twice as long as that to finish driving tonight." or "It will take the same amount of time it takes for you to watch three (favorite half hour cartoon)." If they can relate it to something they CAN do, they know they can do it.

I pack books, small hand held games, small dolls, sandwich bags of Lego pieces, notepads and pencils, small coloring books and crayons, etc. I sometimes combine sets (like a doll with brush and clothing) in zippered pencil bags I picked up on sale during back to school sales. These make the perfect size for stowing on board a vehicle and for opening for use in car seats or laps.

Parents have needs too. We made sure we took time for ourselves and each other each day as best we could. We put the children in their beds and talked quietly. We laid down on the grass together while we watched them play. We held hands and walked alone while watching them run together up a trail. We rubbed each other's backs in the evenings. I massaged Clint's neck with my left hand on the drive. We took turns soaking in the tub. Little things add up to a nice experience.

Clint and I kept an eye out for travel brochures and hotel coupon guides books. This allowed us to know which hotel chains were in the area and compare rates and amenities without using a computer.

Clint negotiated with the hotel desk clerks. He was able to book two large adjoining suites for two nights at a very nice hotel much cheaper than he could get one room for two nights at another hotel. We expected the price at the nicer hotel to be much higher than the first one we checked. Due to the nature of an event in town, they knew the larger rooms would probably be unused, but the smaller rooms were booked up at nearly every hotel for miles. So, they offered us a deal to take the larger rooms together so they could put us in there and save their smaller rooms for the people they KNEW were coming into town. You never know what circumstances will affect what kind of deal you can get until you ask! I believe it also helped to mention we checked prices with their competitor across the street before we went to them.

Commit Your Way Unto The Lord

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     Brandon, 2011 homeschool graduate, is so far ahead of his peers in his college classes they have pulled him out of the classes & put him to work in real world settings for the school. He still gets attendance & 4.0 credit for the classes. His instructors love his work ethic & his ability to self teach. I am very proud of him! When he tells me college is a "piece of cake" compared to my homeschool lessons, I respond "College is a "piece of cake" BECAUSE of my homeschool lessons." :-)

      His instructor just obtained a part time job and has asked if Brandon can work there part time too. The job is a starter position at $16 per hour. It will look very good on his resume and will move him along in his chosen career. The only downside is that I will not get to see him for half a day each week day, but he will be home more on the weekends.

     Amanda is doing great in her cosmetology college. In less than two months, she has already completed 1/3 of her required manicures, pedicures, and hair cuts. Having a large family is a blessing to her in her course, because she has plenty of people to ask to come in to help her meet her requirements. In fact, she plans to loan some of us out to other students so we can help them meet theirs. Amanda has done so well, her instructor let her cut and color her hair. She did such a great job of it, the instructor gave her a $5 tip! She is also ahead in filling out her workbooks which is required for graduation and certification.

     I am very thankful for Brandon's and Amanda's successes. Each of my pregnancies had me on bedrest for 6-8 months, so I often worried about how I'd manage to teach them well. Being the oldest, Brandon's and Amanda's education suffered the most, but they are 4.0 students and well liked by their instructors. I can clearly see where God multiplied my efforts.

     I'd often grow very frustrated with my limitations. I'd pray, "Lord, You have given me these children and led me to homeschool, so I am trusting you to work this out." I learned so much about herbs, compassion, accepting help, etc through the difficult pregnancies; I know there was a purpose for all of it.

Psalm 37:5 Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.

23 Haziran 2012 Cumartesi

Best of: Top 11 to 20 Recipes of 2009

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With part 1, Best of: Top 10 Recipes of 2009 out of the way, it was pretty interesting to see what 11 to 20 would look like. Almost half the recipes were non-Vietnamese, and one isn't even edible. :P

So here you go, my
Top 11 to 20 Recipes of 2009
The recipes are presented in order of which one is most popular. The numbers behind the recipe represent how many page views each recipe received from May 24, 2009 to February 4, 2012, according to Google Analytics. This is purely meant for fun, in case you wanted to see which recipes are popular with others too.

Ca Hap Gung Hanh (Vietnamese Steamed Fish with Ginger and Scallions) 3 Ca Hap Gung Hanh (Vietnamese Steamed Fish with Ginger and Scallions) 9,414



Beef and Broccoli 2 Chinese Beef and Broccoli Stir-fry 8,824

Hanh Dam (Vietnamese Vinegared Onions) 1 Hanh Dam (Vietnamese Vinegared Onions) 8,773

Mi Vit Tiem Chay (Vietnamese Vegetarian Chinese Five-Spice Duck Soup with Egg Noodles) 9 Mi Vit Tiem Chay (Vietnamese Vegetarian Chinese Five-Spice Duck Soup with Egg Noodles) 8,504

Homemade Laundry Detergent 3 Laundry Detergent 6,142

Braised Short Ribs with Red Wine and Mushrooms 1 Vietnamese-French Braised Short Ribs with Red Wine and Mushrooms 5,509

Banh Mi Thit Kho Trung (Vietnamese Braised Pork and Egg Sandwich) 3 Banh Mi Thit Kho Trung (Vietnamese Braised Pork and Egg Sandwich) 5,455

Aguadito de Pollo (Peruvian Chicken Soup) 3 Aguadito de Pollo (Peruvian Chicken Soup) 5,345

Chinese Spare Ribs with Coke and Soy Sauce 2 Chinese Spare Ribs with Coca Cola and Soy Sauce 4,931

Goi Mit Non Tom Thit Heo (Vietnamese Green Jackfruit Salad with Pork and Shrimp) 2 Goi Mit Non Tom Thit Heo (Vietnamese Green Jackfruit Salad with Pork and Shrimp) 4,919

The complete "Best of" recipe lists index for all the years. Don't forget part 1, Best of: Top 10 Recipes of 2009.

Are any of your favorites on the list? Or are any of your favorites not on the list?

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1 year ago today, this little tiger wishes everyone a happy Year of the Cat.
2 years ago today, Pollos KiKiRyKi Peruvian Restaurant - Claremont.
3 years ago today, Mexican Mole Coloradito.
4 years ago today, 'Twas the night before Tet (Vietnamese Lunar New Year).
5 years ago today, Chao (Vietnamese Rice Porridge).